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What can I do to help my child when routines work for a bit and then fall apart?

People come here to understand why something in everyday life feels harder, different or more costly than it should — and what might make it work better.

Short answer

Keep routines simple enough to restart.

What this can look like

A routine can vanish after holidays, illness or one hard week.

Why it can happen

A routine can work for a while and then stop fitting when life changes, the steps grow or a cue disappears. Keep one anchor and make returning to it easy after a hard day.

What might help

Restart one anchor first, such as bag by the door or a bedtime cue.

What the research helps explain

Australian ADHD guidance and international consensus evidence describe ADHD as affecting everyday functioning for some children, including attention, planning, memory, time and follow-through. Practical supports can be useful regardless of whether ADHD is part of the picture.

What can vary

Development, sleep, health, learning, stress, environment and task design can create similar patterns. A public page cannot diagnose ADHD or replace an individual assessment; seek appropriate advice for persistent or concerning difficulties.

For this situation

For you, treat a disrupted routine as a cue to simplify the system, not a judgement about your child.

More info and original sources

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