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What can I do at work to help someone when they feel guilty for needing to slow down?

People come here to understand why something in everyday life feels harder, different or more costly than it should — and what might make it work better.

Short answer

Do not make people feel guilty for working at a sustainable pace.

What this can look like

People may keep overextending because they fear being seen as less committed.

Why it can happen

A reliable pace protects quality, safety and retention. Leaders set the conditions that make boundaries possible through scope, staffing and honest timelines.

What might help

Reward sustainable delivery, clear trade-offs and early risk raising—not visible exhaustion.

What the research helps explain

WHO describes burn-out as an occupational phenomenon linked to chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. Australian guidance recognises that workload, control, support and work design affect wellbeing and performance; they are organisational responsibilities as well as individual experiences.

What can vary

Fatigue, cognitive changes and reduced capacity can have many causes. Do not diagnose burnout, depression or illness from work behaviour, or ask employees to disclose private health information to access fair work design.

For this situation

For you, model clear limits and avoid praising burnout behaviour as commitment.

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