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What can I do at work to help someone when they find it hard to rest when there is still something to fix?
People come here to understand why something in everyday life feels harder, different or more costly than it should โ and what might make it work better.
Short answer
Do not make rest or reasonable hours dependent on a zero-defect state.
What this can look like
People may stay late because they believe a task is never safe enough to leave.
Why it can happen
There will almost always be something that could be improved. Work systems need clear stopping points, handovers and realistic staffing to prevent endless vigilance.
What might help
Set reasonable stopping points and staffing expectations; quality should not require endless hours.
What the research helps explain
Research and public guidance describe perfectionism and overcontrol by their impact on finishing, flexibility, relationships and quality of life. In a workplace, clear standards, proportionate quality controls and fair management are useful without deciding whether an employee has OCD, OCPD, anxiety or another experience.
What can vary
The same behaviour can have different meanings in different work contexts. Do not diagnose employees, request private medical information or make support conditional on disclosure. Focus on task demands, impact and a workable agreement.
For this situation
For you, model leaving work at a sustainable point and protect recovery.
More info and original sources
Poko summarises the relevance of public original sources and links out for anyone who wants to read more.
- Perfectionism and self-esteem in adults: systematic review and meta-analysis โ Reviews research on perfectionism and its association with self-esteem.
- Perfectionism: are you sure it pays off? โ Provides public expert guidance on when perfectionism becomes costly.